Some of you may know that for the past few months I have been conducting an Intimacy Project, where I have been interviewing 100 people about their definitions of, desires in, and challenges with creating intimacy in their lives.
Men and women have confided in me their deepest desires and fears around intimacy, and I've learned some surprising things!
In this video, I share what I've learned from interviewing people in a conversation with my friend & fellow coach Lauren DelGandio, who is a tour guide of the human experience and every day connection.
(5:10) The 2 most common fears people experience in creating intimacy. One might surprise you!!
(8:09) What happens when your inner good girl shows up to hijack your desires in creating intimacy.
(12:35) How does a woman invite her man into deeper intimacy? All about the negotiation....
(19:20) Why women are afraid of their own femininity and how they resist it. How we each experience our femininity.
(25:00) What is a trustable masculine? When is it okay to surrender to a man?
(27:00) A new kind of love I'm hoping to create in my own life, and with others - evolutionary love. How it has the power to change the world. Fuck the fairytale!
(37:05) Advice for engaging your partner more deeply in intimacy. How to BE an invitation. How to create an experiment.
(44:02) Our sexuality is the LAST place we grow and evolve as humans. And, no you don't have to take your clothes off at my workshops!